Your first visit to a gynaecologist: what to expect

Many women wait years before seeing a gynaecologist for the first time. Some feel shy. Some worry about what the family will say. Many simply tell themselves that it will pass.

If that sounds like you, this guide explains what really happens at a first visit, so that it feels less unknown and a little easier to begin.

Before you bookWhy women wait, and why you should not

In many homes, a woman's health is not talked about openly. A problem is kept quiet, put behind the needs of the family, or left alone to see whether it settles by itself. Sometimes it does. When it does not, waiting can let some problems become harder to treat, and checking early usually keeps things simple.

A gynaecologist is a doctor for women's health, from periods and fertility to pregnancy and menopause. You do not need to be pregnant or seriously unwell to see one. Asking early is not a sign that something is wrong. It is a sign that you are looking after yourself.

There is also the worry itself. Carrying a concern alone, month after month, is tiring. For many women, simply being listened to and given a clear explanation is a relief, whatever the outcome.

When to bookWhen to book a gynae appointment

Think about booking a visit if you notice any of these:

If you are not sure whether something is worth a visit, ask anyway. A short consultation can answer your questions and tell you whether anything needs treatment or follow-up. Breast changes deserve a check too, and our breast awareness guide explains what to look for.

On the dayWhat happens at the visit

At SMHC you are seen by a female doctor, Dr. Madiha Saqib, and female staff are present. You can read more about gynaecology at SMHC, and here is what to expect on the day.

1. A private conversationThe doctor asks about your periods, your health, any medicines and what brought you in. Share as much as you are comfortable with. There are no wrong answers.
2. An examination, only with your consentIf an examination would help, the doctor explains what it involves and why, and asks your permission first. You can ask questions or ask her to stop.
3. An ultrasound or tests, if neededDepending on your concern, the doctor may advise an ultrasound or other tests. Not every visit needs them.
4. A plan you understandThe doctor explains what she found, what happens next and when to come back. If anything is unclear, ask again.

Take your time. If you feel nervous, tell the doctor or the nurse at the start. They would much rather know, and they can go slower or explain more.

Not every first visit needs an internal examination. The doctor decides what is useful for your concern, and you stay in control.

Getting readyWhat to bring

A little preparation helps the doctor help you. If you cannot find everything, please come anyway.

Your checklistQuestions worth asking

The visit is your time. Asking questions is part of it, not a bother. You may like to take these with you.

It is also fine to raise something that feels embarrassing. Doctors hear these questions every day, and nothing you ask will shock them.

Do not waitGo to emergency now

Some problems cannot wait for an appointment. Come to emergency straight away if you have:

SMHC emergency and labour room are open 24 hours, every day. If you are unsure, call 0300-0239708 and we will guide you.

This is general health information. It is not a diagnosis and not a substitute for a doctor's advice. If you have symptoms, please see a doctor.